FOOD FOR THOUGHT a Mid-Day Snack
Cows are girls! They hang together, raise their children together, they munch and mingle while balancing the woes of life together. Cows Mingle.
com·min·gle (v): to mix, mingle or blend together
It's Munch O'clock
About CowMingle
On my recent trip to the Black Hills, I was inspired by the many animals that had babies with them. I could appreciate the continuation of life and nature when I saw a mother with her babies, and I could relate. I had my own "babies" with me, and it was a very comforting feeling to relate to the animals in that way, as well as appreciate how they make it in the wild.
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Though, one thing caught my eye for sure. There were no daddies. Whether the nature of the animal was to raise her baby in a pack or alone, the males were not part of the daily trek for food, shelter, comfort, and water, yet the mothers grazed so gracefully and didn't exhibit the type of stress I feel in my daily life to keep the fort tied down, even with the presence of a partner.
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I turned my eyes on to my husband with wonder. "Thank God he is here! How lonely I would feel without him!" Or, "Who would I complain to about how hard it is to raise children, run a household, keep a job?" I began to wonder, "How do the animal mommies do it? She is so calm, grazing, and moseying along the prairie or the pasture or the forest (whichever terrain I was in at the time) she isn't frantic, or pressed for time."
The mommies that preferred raising their babies in isolation from other animals seemed strong to me, brave, fearless. I admired them.
Those that chose to raise their babies in a pack, seemed comfortable, safe, and un-phased by the woes of the world around them.​
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While I can recognize that the human species is the crown of God's creation, having dominion over free will, and the privilege of
choice, not succumbing to the overpowering of our instincts, but having complex thought to orchestrate our surroundings and make them what we need them to be for our survival; I am also a bit envious of how strong, powerful, and fearless the females are in alternative species, not having a mind like this instead surviving on their instincts. It makes me think that maybe I can learn from these powerful female beasts of nature, to get out of my head and live free and in the moment.
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On July 4th, my family and I were off-roading in South Dakota when we came across a herd of free-roaming cow and their babies. When I spoke to one baby in a sweet voice, the mother turned and looked at me fiercely. My whole family rolled the windows up. Is there such thing as an angry cow? I had to remind myself that the nature of the cow is docile, and she probably won't charge at me for speaking to her baby, but I couldn't help but appreciate the intense interest she had in me, as I have for those who speak to my baby.
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We sat back and watched the cows as they commingled along the forested plain, and I appreciated all of the mommy cows that trekked the rocky, terrain stopping to graze, nurse their baby, or stopping simply because a member of their herd stopped.
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I couldn't help but relate to the pregnant mommy moseying along with her toddler, and her other cow friends. I liked imagining how simple their plight was compared to mine, yet not so different. I reveled in the notion that all cows are girls and just like human girls, we thrive on our sisterly connections to help navigate us through our rocky terrain, for our own survival. I realized that just like human girls, CowsMingle!
About Me
Lynette has worked in education for more than 20 years. Serving 8 years as a Curriculum and Instruction Coach, and 14 years as a middle school teacher. She has a passion for helping women reach their full potential through any facet of life. She graduated with her Bachelor of Arts from CSULB in film production & media, and obtained a multiple subject teaching credential. She has a master's degree in education from SJSU and holds an administrative leadership credential. Lynette's master research paper focused on the positive and negative effects of frequent implementation and removal of academic programs in middle schools across California. Her thesis was selected from among her colleagues and awarded a Certificate of Outstanding Research.
As a mother of twin boys, plus a third son, and champion of infertility, she has been married for 18 years to the love of her life. She was born and raised in Santa Cruz, CA. where she lives and enjoys the fresh air, redwood trees, garden landscapes, cooking, and spending time with her family at the beach, riding bikes, hiking and traveling. ​
Her journey through life has felt long, and at times treacherous, while holding on to joy, love, and hope through every challenge. Her wish to thrive and meet her full potential continues to transcend her through the toughest of times. The most special part of life has been her connection to other women along the way, and her deep admiration for their bravery and strength in outstanding circumstances, learning from one another and sharing has opened her eyes to the infinite possibilities that life has to offer, and that everyone would benefit from the support and dedication of a life coach.
Education
2024-2025
Cognitive Coaching Training
Cognitive coaching is a distinct coaching model designed to develop self-directed individuals by enhancing their thinking processes.
2010-2011
Master of Arts
Education
San Jose State University
A Master of Education thinks critically and confidently navigating problems and situations with an open mind, ready to examine various perspectives. They exhibit exceptional analytical skills, enabling them to rigorously evaluate appropriate methods for learning.
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Holds an administrative credential
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Awarded a Certificate of Outstanding Research
2003
Bachelor of Arts
Film Production & Media
California State University
Long Beach
The study of human interaction and reaction through film analysis explores how characters, narratives, and visual storytelling influence audiences' emotions and behaviors. By examining cinematic techniques, themes, and character dynamics, researchers uncover the psychological and social implications of film. This analysis not only enhances our understanding of storytelling but also sheds light on broader cultural contexts and human relationships. Ultimately, it reveals the powerful impact that film can have on shaping perceptions and fostering empathy.
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